My parents are against dating
Here's how to help make that happen, from start to finish: How far you're into your relationship with your SO should determine how much you tell your parents about him, says Sandella.
So, if you've only been dating for a few weeks, there's no need to dish every detail.
You can't help who you fall for (that's the best part about love, IMO).
It certainly puts me in an odd predicament: I don't want to compromise my romantic desires just for the sake of appeasing my family, but I've also grown tired of hiding the guys I'm dating from the people I love. So, I'm left with the question: How much should my family impact who I date and the decisions I make in my love life? In other words, don't totally base who you choose to date on whether or not you think your parents will like them.
They pester me with questions like, "Why can't you bring home someone we actually like?
I mean, I've seen my cousins bring home girls their parents weren't crazy about, but eventually they came around to accepting them because they wanted to see their children happy.
But Sandella says going into a relationship thinking your parents will come around is a "risky strategy."Instead, your best shot at winning your parents over is to sit them down and listen to what they have to say.
But as you two get more serious, you should start sharing more about this special guy in your life. If you complain to your parents about your partner, and/or you complain to your SO about your parents before they meet, you're only further the bond that could be possible between them, says Sandella.
Such remarks can stick in their minds and make them biased against each other, which will probably bite you in the ass if and when they do meet. "When you become serious about someone, you'll want to see how they interact with your parents and vice versa," says Sandella.