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The problem is: Coverts are known for presenting themselves as vulnerable victims who can even use that vulnerability as a hook to bait you in!
I could go on, but suffice to say when you google this you will see contradictory information regarding the subject.
As though following some kind of sick “Covert Narcissists Guidebook To Abuse” they follow a protocol of denial, contempt, reframing, reblaming and shaming the person who presents them with evidence of their lies.
Most maddeningly they will simply look dead in the eyes and with no guilt or shame whatsoever tell you that black is white and up is down. I have a degree in psychology and I have a lot of experience on the frontline actualy helping humans to heal from abuse, but I am not a published professor with a phd.
The problem is: Coverts can learn that a quick and TOTAL apology is a really slick way of getting their target to “go back to sleep” if it looks like they are waking up.
Narcissists are ambitious, successful, go-getters full of energy and pumped with charismatic charm.
Narcissistic supply is scarce, forcing them to be more cunning and deceptive than the overt narcissist.
They are also shown to be more likely to engage in incest than overts. Add to this that Covert Narcissists vector in with the worst forms of malignant narcissistic borderline personality disorder for certain key traits and behaviours and you have a hellish rollercoaster ride of emotional dysregulation in store during contact with a covert. It’s a very complicated subject and my ambitions for the course are very high.Following prolonged exposure to the psychological toxic virus that is covert narcissism the agenda of wearing down the victims ego boundaries and injecting them with self doubt, anxiety and insecurity starts to work its way deeper and deeper into the mind and heart of the prey.The victim, stuck in a maddening double bind, begins to go into a state of learned helplessness and submit to the twisted, upside-down reality tunnel of the covert narcissist and this is where the real, deep, prolonged damage can be done.As soon as you reach out a helping hand, their jaws snap shut on you.We fall for the projected idealised image of the person the covert narcissist wishes they could be but knows in their hearts they are not.